Use optimized folly DistributedMutex in LRUCache when available (#10179)

Summary:
folly DistributedMutex is faster than standard mutexes though
imposes some static obligations on usage. See
https://github.com/facebook/folly/blob/main/folly/synchronization/DistributedMutex.h
for details. Here we use this alternative for our Cache implementations
(especially LRUCache) for better locking performance, when RocksDB is
compiled with folly.

Also added information about which distributed mutex implementation is
being used to cache_bench output and to DB LOG.

Intended follow-up:
* Use DMutex in more places, perhaps improving API to support non-scoped
locking
* Fix linking with fbcode compiler (needs ROCKSDB_NO_FBCODE=1 currently)

Credit: Thanks Siying for reminding me about this line of work that was previously
left unfinished.

Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/rocksdb/pull/10179

Test Plan:
for correctness, existing tests. CircleCI config updated.
Also Meta-internal buck build updated.

For performance, ran simultaneous before & after cache_bench. Out of three
comparison runs, the middle improvement to ops/sec was +21%:

Baseline: USE_CLANG=1 DEBUG_LEVEL=0 make -j24 cache_bench (fbcode
compiler)

```
Complete in 20.201 s; Rough parallel ops/sec = 1584062
Thread ops/sec = 107176

Operation latency (ns):
Count: 32000000 Average: 9257.9421  StdDev: 122412.04
Min: 134  Median: 3623.0493  Max: 56918500
Percentiles: P50: 3623.05 P75: 10288.02 P99: 30219.35 P99.9: 683522.04 P99.99: 7302791.63
```

New: (add USE_FOLLY=1)

```
Complete in 16.674 s; Rough parallel ops/sec = 1919135  (+21%)
Thread ops/sec = 135487

Operation latency (ns):
Count: 32000000 Average: 7304.9294  StdDev: 108530.28
Min: 132  Median: 3777.6012  Max: 91030902
Percentiles: P50: 3777.60 P75: 10169.89 P99: 24504.51 P99.9: 59721.59 P99.99: 1861151.83
```

Reviewed By: anand1976

Differential Revision: D37182983

Pulled By: pdillinger

fbshipit-source-id: a17eb05f25b832b6a2c1356f5c657e831a5af8d1

1 files changed, 2 insertions, 0 deletions

diff --git a/TARGETS b/TARGETS
index d19f5eb6d..a6556d901 100644
--- a/TARGETS
+++ b/TARGETS
@@ -334,6 +334,7 @@ cpp_library_wrapper(name="rocksdb_lib", srcs=[
         "//folly/experimental/coro:collect",
         "//folly/experimental/coro:coroutine",
         "//folly/experimental/coro:task",
+        "//folly/synchronization:distributed_mutex",
     ], headers=None, link_whole=False, extra_test_libs=False)
 
 cpp_library_wrapper(name="rocksdb_whole_archive_lib", srcs=[
@@ -662,6 +663,7 @@ cpp_library_wrapper(name="rocksdb_whole_archive_lib", srcs=[
         "//folly/experimental/coro:collect",
         "//folly/experimental/coro:coroutine",
         "//folly/experimental/coro:task",
+        "//folly/synchronization:distributed_mutex",
     ], headers=None, link_whole=True, extra_test_libs=False)
 
 cpp_library_wrapper(name="rocksdb_test_lib", srcs=[